Banking Time

Schedules, timelines, to-do lists, blah blah blah….how is a mom supposed to get everything done in the day/week/month/year? I saw another post by my favorite blogger, James at Bleubird talking about how to get everything done without losing your mind. Here are my thoughts.

I find my days extremely exhausting! My days are repetitive but it works for me because I know once I have my chores done, I can relax or do something that has been pushed to the wayside.

Food: I make lunches for the next day and dinner at the same time so I can save dishes and time. While little man takes a nap in the evening I run on the treadmill and shower (sometimes this happens, sometimes it doesn't).

Fitness: If I shower at night, that saves me 30 minutes of blow-drying my hair. If he doesn't nap then we go for a walk outside. I recently lost 30 pounds, I'm not about to gain it back and I want to teach him to exercise or play daily! I also curl my hair and do my makeup at the same time....trend maybe?

Cleaning: Let’s be honest…this is usually the last thing I get to. I have forgone sweeping for mopping everything into a pile and then picking up the remains…lazy? Maybe. Out-of-time? Definitely! Showers I clean before I get in the shower, it’s already running so I might as well clean it as I clean myself. Each toilet has a bottle of cleaner next to it so I can just put some in, scrub and let sit till the next time it gets flushed. Dusting with a swiffer duster is the only way I have found to make that easier and faster. I live in AZ so everything is dusty…my motto: Get over it. Vacuuming…tough task. I would like to do it when little man is sleeping but he will wake up. So I usually get this done when dad is home on the weekend and can entertain the boy.

Others: I usually get my crafting time on the weekend when daddy gets little time in. Groceries happen on weekends and I try to shop for the month as much as possible so I can limit that errand. I pay bills/budget on breaks at work.

I like to do things in a way that "banks time" … doing 2 things at once saves me the extra time to do them separately. Anyone have any other ideas?

Hope this helps!

XO Sharon

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Bucket List

 

Yup...I'm 29. That means there is only one year left to do fun, crazy, what-were-you-thinking activities in my 20’s. Some stuff you can pull in your 20’s….in your 30’s it’s just sad.

I decided that each week I am going to choose one thing on my list and work on it. A few are weekly things that have to happen consistently so I will touch on those a bit.

Opinion Requested: Should I add anything to the list?

·         Create a blog with more than 20 subscribers – COME ON people I can’t do this without you clicking the “Follow” button at the top of the page! (Thank you by the way J )

·         Learn how to use PhotoShop – Created Silas’ “Thank You” Cards..that was new.

·         Week in Collage – I have made a few…just forget to post those…will do when I get home tonight

·         Learn conversational Spanish – got Rosetta Stone…now need to use it

·         Yoga – I need to find a yoga video that I can do at home when Silas naps…about 30-40 minutes long, any suggestions?

·         Get a promotion – working on it J

·         Healthy body/Healthy Mind – in progress…see “running” and “Operation Beautiful”

·         Surprise my husband at least once per week – tried to take him hiking a couple weekends ago…but we got rained out. Surprised him with crab legs since he was craving them.

·         Skype – I will Skype my sister in San Diego this week

·         Grow something – working to keep my basil plant alive, it’s a little droopy at times but I think he’ll pull through – side note…need to find out how you dry basil….this guy has way too many leaves I think…side note to my side note, why do I grow basil if I only use it once per week?

·         Accessorizing – I just bought some more bracelets and earrings…eyeballing a few fall hats…may have to go grab some.

·         Hatchets – well…I have to figure out if there is anyone on this list… right now..not so much

·         One on One time – I am taking my niece Eva out for ice cream and “jewelry” shopping this weekend J Soooper Excites!

·         Friendships – unfortunately I haven’t been able to do this…but we are working on schedules

·         Organic – I may be too broke for this lifestyle…I am doing lousy on the intent part…I generally eat cause I’m hungry and/or bored.

·         Walking – I have been walking to the store more when I can with Silas. Work is too far…everyone else… too far.

·         Traditions – First edition: Go on a beginning of Fall camping trip (camping story to come soon)

·         Environmentally friendly products – working right now to use up all my “bad” products. Switching to ammonia, vinegar and baking soda combinations.

Who are these ladies?

A Working Housewife: A woman who happily, tirelessly, and begrudgingly does whatever needs to be done in and outside of the home. Clean, cook, sew, runs a business, take care of children or husbands or random in-laws. Works a full-time job or feels like she works a full-time job only to start a new one as soon as she sits down, as someone is sure to need something or have a question that needs to be answered ASAP.  While the housewife loves her family, dog, child(ren), etc.  and is happy to do most everything on the list, probably due to being perfectionists and figure might as well do it my way, it is exhausting.

Wanting to do something fulfilling and simply for the fun of doing it, Sharon, Dedtra, Nikki and Suzanne will be blogging and discussing everything from cooking and baking to why we can’t communicate with our spouses. While we don’t have the answers to most things, we do have opinions and will share them with other confused and interested housewives. No one teaches a girl how to be a wife or mother….and we can’t teach you that here either (so don’t ask) but we will make it more fun on the journey to figure it out.